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Okay, this is iffy. There's A and B. We're all girls in 9th grade. Last year, we were all good friends. But A started to be a scene and a total *beep* and B was just..uhg. So this year I'm pulling away from them.

There was this whole little drama abuot A "cutting" (which were little paper cuts) and B doing drugs. B stopped A from "cutting" but A tried drugs twice before saying she didn't like it. B is doing drugs...and I mean serious drugs. Apparently, A told B that she'd tell the counslor that B was doing drugs unless B stopped. Now B is mad because A said she was going to tell. And me, I'm stuck in the middle. Both of them come to me at random times saying "She said this and that!" and B is really snappy to people accusing them of being on A's side and A is getting "depressed" because her best friend is mad at her. And I'm still stuck in the middle for some reason. Both of them will get mad at me if I agree with the other or stay neutral, etc.

My question is how do I get ymself out? I've already told A to tell B "I'd rather lose a friendship than a friend" but I don'tt know how that went. And another thing...does B have the right to be so pissy at A? I mean, B did bring this upon herself. A is just looking out for B telling her she's making a big mistake. B brought this upon herself and she's blaming the consequences she brought upon herself on someone who's trying to help. I just want different points of view on this. Thanks (link)
i think A tellin B she waz goin to a counslor was stupid cause B see it as A taken away wat makes her feel good.so if she really cared she would just straight up do it and i kno she waz tryin to protect her by tellin her wat she waz gonna do but B really takes it as a threat.i kno yall care 4 her but there's sum reason why she started doin drugs n yall need 2 find out wat that reason is.den try to help her.if dat don't work tell a counslor.if her problem ends up bein fixed then in the future she'll thank yall 4 not givin up on her and not touch drugs again.


Rating: 5
B just does it for fun




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