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I think that i am fat. my mom does to. she calls me fat all of the time, and now my sister does. honestly i hate myself and the way that i am. ive always wanted to be an actress or a singer, but my mom told me that i wont make it because i am way to fat. she tells me that i will never get a boyfriend if i am this big. i way less than 160 and am about 5'4". i kno that i am huge, but i cant lose the weight. i used to cut myself becuase of how terrible i am, and now i am giving up at life all together. if i have to be fat all of my life, than i dont want to live at all. please help. if you can give me ways to lose the wait. i thinking of suicide, and am only thirteen. my family and all guys hate me. i need help and fast.
thanx for listening..........

body image is about the hardest thing to cope with out there. in my past i've struggled w/ coping with my body in the complete opposite way & revisted my friend "MIA". it wasn't a good time in my life, and i'm not proud. A lot of people around me would joke about me being fat, when really i was completly under weight. that was about 8 months ago, and now, I'm completely healed. It took me a while to be comfortable with my body again, and love what God gave me. It was also hard because at my worst point, i chose to break the news to my boyfriend, who dumped me, and it was alot of stress. Suicide, eating disorders, drugs. its all bad. It may sound like the best solution, because trust me i know it does. but when you look back you see that the people who truly love and care about you will not judge you & say mean things to you. Try confronting your mom & sister. Tell them that you really don't appriciate the put-downs, and as hard as it might be, tell them what your thinking. I told my mom, and she helped me cope, and luckly i never had to go to a doctor or counsler. Moms are supposed to be there for you. But if she continues, remember she IS verbaly ABUSING you. & honey, thats NOT okay. Seek help.

God Bless, & hope i helped.

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