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i'm 14/f
LAtely i've been thinking about my life and things i think i want to become or do for myself. The thing is i've been getting really scared because the person i wanna be is the exact kind of person my friends don't like. I want to move on in my life, but i don't wanna loose somthing really special. I love my friends but the more i spen time with them the more i realize we have pretty much nothing in commen and it seems i don't fit in, and somtimes it really seems like they see it. So what do I do ? Do i stay with them pretending to be somthin im don't want to anymore or do i change and risk loosing my friends?
i know how you feel babe. i did it. it was hard man, a lot of tears from my friends that i left and stuff, but i look at it now and i realize me and my old friends are happier now that we aren't friends because i am finally the real me and they are the real them. we aren't trying to just make eachother happy. think of it like this, if/when you lose your friends, your able to expand your horizons. you can be friends with whoever the you want now! but if you don't wanna then don't i mean its up to you. in my opinion i think you'd be happier if you would finally be yourself
(Rating: 5) haha thanks good to know i'm not alone