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Q: Well yea here is my problem, i have a boyfriend lets just call him henry, and we have been going out for almost 2 years and he is ready to settle down with me and have a family but and we have been promised to each other for a long time and he is ready to settle down but i am only 16 years old so wat do i do ?
i honesly dont think you think you
should have a child. you're only
sixteen. you still have school,
parties, graduation, dances, getting
wasted, all those things teenagers
do you wont be able to do. Just because
you have a child. i would wait until
you're out of college. how are you
gonna get a job if you dont go to
college? if your boyfriend's only
sixteen or seventeen, and he has school
how are you guys gonna afford to HAVE
a baby. clothes, daipers, bottles -
they're not that cheap. my sister had
a baby when she was sixteen, and i think
it pretty much ruined her life. dont get
me wrong; she's very happy with her child
but i mean come on, im sure you'd rather
be out partying then taking care of a
baby every night. just think of the
things you're gonna miss if you do
have a child. i dont think it's worth
missing out on all those things.

thanks u really made me think about this

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