Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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so i like this guy i hardly know him but we've flirted online and he seems pretty interested and i am too. but the thing is i know it wont go anywhere. he drinks and smokes and does weed. i have never drank or done drugs or anything i am a goody goody but i still like to have fun! if this had happened a while ago i would be like ew no way but for some reason this guy has me interested in him. should i start backing away? i realy dont want to. could it work out even if he does drugs and im a good girl (link)
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I think it could work out.
Just whenever you two begin to date, let him in on it. Tell him right away that you don't smoke, do drugs, or drink or anything, and not to pressure you or try and get you to do it, because you won't. If he likes you enough, he's not going to force you into something you don't want to do. If he takes it badly and acts immaturely ; then you don't need him, and he doesn't deserve you.
Just ask him to please respect your decisions and maybe not to smoke around you so you don't start coughing and everything, and if he decides to drink, just make sure some water or something else if there for you to drink instead.
Remember, this relationship is about you and this guy and your feelings toward eachother ; and I think that's stronger than some weed and alcohol.
I hope I helped.
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