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Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:


www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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I really like this guy and well I told him. At first he said that he just wanted to be friends, which is fine but lately he keeps saying and doing things that make me think otherwise.

Like this one time we were talking on msn and he had asked me who my best-friend was so i told him, and then he asks "Have you told her about us yet?"
I'm confused by the way he asked that because we are not dating, we are just friends still, like we've been for over 10 years, but he used the word "US".

What does this mean?

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That word "us" could mean anything really in this kind of situation where you don't know what's going on or what he's thinking.

What I would do, if I were you, is just ask him. Best to find out from the actual source. I mean it's not like you're being like,"OMG DOES THAT MEAN WE'RE GOING OUT?!?" You're just asking a simple question about what "us" meant. The next time you're talking to him, whenever you're just talking, bring up your friend and then be like,"Yeah, remember whenever you said "did you tel her about us yet?".. what did you mean exactly, by that?" And just see what he says.

Like I said, it's hard to tell in this situation what he's thinking.

Whenever he said "us" he might've just meant "us" like as in you guys are best friends and he might've just been joking around being like,"Oh did you tell your friend about us being friends and she better watch her spot for "best friend"?" You know what I mean?

So like I said, the best way to go about finding out is just asking him, and he shouldn't get suspicious of anything or think something, you're just asking what a sentence he said means.

I hope I helped.


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thanks a bunch!




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