Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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okay.. so my friend always talks about this kid.. and my friend told me that she thinks she likes him and she knows i like him too.. and now i just feel so weird having us like the same person and were like bestfriends.. im not sure what to do. stop talking to her? or idk. (link)
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don't stop talking to her. she's your best friend!
now, if i were you, there's two things i would do. i would talk to her about it, definetely, no matter what. it needs to be talked about and you guys need to release your feelings and thoughts to eachother you can't keep it all bottled up and hidden from eachother.
but then you two need to decide what's going to go on from here. are you two going to let some boy who you two'll probably never continue dating throughout school ( i dont want to sound negative, but teenage relationships do tend to end sooner or later ), and then have no shoulder to cry on? no best friend? i don't think so.
or do you two want to be like,"may the best man win". this can somewhat be agood thing cause it shows maturity and that you're not gonna let your friendship get ruined ; but then there's the pain of seeing your friend with the guy you like, which usually results in jealousy and hate and a ruined friendship.
so if you REALLY want my true, true advice, here... i say like i said before, you and your friend talk about it and just get your thoughts and feelings all out there in the open and everything nad let eachother know, and then i would both suggest neither of you go after this guy. if anything, just be friends. like i said, would you both really choose one guy over a best friend?
"guys come and go, but friends are forever".
"chicks before dicks".
i hope i helped.
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