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I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating.

I'm sorry, but to me it just sounds like you're some whiny brat who expects everyone to be perfect and have everything go their way or else they get all depressed. If you really want to help yourself, stop with the self pity and actually do something. If you keep thinking in such a negative way, you'll never love life or be happy. If you don't like anyone, well then thats your problem because you cant change people. you'll either have to lower your standards a bit and become more tolerant of people, or just sit there and complain for the rest of your life. Do you have any hobbies? If you do, try joining some clubs or groups that involve whatever it is you like to do. And maybe girls dont like you because of the vibe youre giving off. Try to be a little more enthusiastic and then maybe people will talk to you and you can find someone that meets your standards. Sitting there and complaining will not solve or change anything. Trust me. And if you're going to, give me a 1 because I really dont care. Im sick of people sitting there and complaining when really its themselves that's the problem, not the world.
-danielle.

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(Rating: 5) I am a whiny brat. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in my own stupid little world that I snap. I'm really embarrassed that I let it happen too. Thank you for your input.
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