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Q: well this girl named B asked my boyfriend out and stuff and then her friend said they hookedup .. i didnt know who to believe so i gave my bf the benifit of the doubt. but i was with him yesterday and on his recieved calls there was a call from her from the 19th. i dont know what to do or how to respond because of everything that happened. he said he didnt tell me because he didnt want me to get mad. im not sure though
well,
Tell him what you heard (not from who!!!), and ask him about it. then if you aren't satisfied with the awnsers, make it clear what you feel, even if it means getting him to have no contact with her.
He has to respect your feelings... unless you get jeolous of every girl he talks to... then you should get a handle on your emotions.
trust is very important in any relationship.
goodluck

i do get very jealous about alot of girls he talks to but that is because this is the second time ive heard he has cheated on me. and everytime i hear it, theres more info i didnt know about and it seems like he could have.

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