Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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Last Update: August 9, 2008
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Ok, i really like this guy at school, but my close friends really hate him (he rejected them), and so i went to my other friends, and they were shocked, and not in a good way. I like the guy alot, and he flirts with me. I havent told my close friends, and i really want to, bacuse i always tell them. What should i do? I really need advice! (link)
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Well if these people are really your friends, it shouldn't matter who you date, or if THEY'RE upset with him. Just cause they're not happy with him, doesn't mean you can't date him and can't have a possibly happy and great relationship.
Just talk to your friends about it, and let them know that you really like this guy and think you'd have a good relationship with them, and you just wanted to let them know and you understand that they may be mad, and you accept that, but they should accept the fact you like him & be happy for you too.
If they really do have a problem with this, then make a comprimise. Just don't have him hanging around them, and have them have their own time with you. Don't let the two intertwine if it's only going to cause drama and problems for everyone. Keep the boyfriend and the friends seperate. Just remember, don't let your boyfriend become first in your life, and your friends seconds.
"Chicks before dicks".
"Guys come and go, but friends are forever."
I hope I helped.
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thank you so much! You really helped. I really didnt know what todo .Your advice reallly was helpful. I will tell them. Wish me luck!
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