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Q: I'm 14 years old and a female.
I have a boyfriend who I have been going out with for 4 months now and at first he was so sweet and really nice to me. Over time he started getting mad at the littlest things,, like how I dressed or did my make-up. He would call me a whore or a slut and other things, and about a month after that he bcame abusive. He would always loose his temper and hit me. Never in front of anyone though, and he just got worse and worse but I never told anyone. So after school yesterday I tried to break up with him, he got so mad and punched me. He said if I ever tried to break up with him again I would regret it. After he left I was just sitting in the hallway crying when this guy I really liked(I didn't know him that well but I like him even before I had a boyfriend)came p to me and knelt beside me and asked me if I was okay. I tried lieing to him, telling him I tripped and fell but he wouldn't by it.(I'm guessing my black eye gave him a hint) He asked me if my boyfriend did this to me and I said yes. He lives close to the school so he asked me if I wanted to go to his house to get cleaned up and I said yes. When we got there he helped me wash the cut and everything and we started talking. He asked me if it was the first time my boyfriend did this to me and I told him no, then I told him everything. For some weird reason I trusted him. He walked me home and when we got their he hugged me and then he kissed me. He said he would take care of my boyfiend. I ddn't really know what he meant but I let it go. I was to happy he kissed me. I was late to school the next day, but when I got their I was just in time to see the fight between my boyfriend and the other guy (Lets call him Matt). They were broken up by the police officer. They were both pretty beat up.Both of them got sent to the principals office. Matt got suspended for a week, and my boyfriend 3 weeks. (He has previos fighting records)I caught Matt as he was leavigng and asked him why he would get in a fight over me. All he said was "I love you and I couldn't stand to see you hurt like that" and he walked away. What should I do I really need help.
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Oh my god! You should definately break up with your boyfriend because I think he's afraid that you might break up with him because no one in the entire world would like him so he's basically threatning you to stay with him because he knows he can't find another girlfriend! But this "Mat" person seems like a better one because he gave you so much help like a true friend/boyfriend should instead of hitting girls. So go out with him and forget about your old one and if he starts hitting you or touching you in anyway that you don't like tell your parents or at least the teacher because he thinks your to nice to tell on him! Hoped I Helped!
Ayumi Hamasaki
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bio
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Hi, I'm Ayumi Hamasaki, I love giving adivce to my friends, family, and random people who need it.
So feel free to aks me anything and I'll try to respond to the question 100% no matter what!
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Info
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E-mail: Gender: Female Member Since: November 20, 2006 Answers: 18 Last Update: December 23, 2006 Visitors: 1284
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