Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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I know no one can really tell me what to do. Its a "my choice" kinda of thing, but I need input.
I have a boyfriend and we'll call him Tom. Tom when we first started to go out, was nice to me and treated like a princess. Now that we have been together for a longer time, hes not. Tom behind my back to my friends calls me a bxtch, whore, slut, dumbaxs & anything else you can think of. Tom will tell my friends that they can't talk to me anymore, so now I'm down to like 5 friends when I use to had alot. He hung up on me last night on the phone and then today when I said something to him about it, he was all nice to me again.
What's the deal ? Should I break up with him ? I kind of want to, but I dont want to hurt him. I know me being happy is important but I shouldn't go around hurting his feelings should I ? ANY advice would help me alot. So thanks. (link)
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That's good that you know your own feelings are important, because most people tend to forget about themselves whenever it comes to other people's needs. Which is a nice thing to do, but still. Both people should be happy.
It sounds to me like your boyfriend is way too controlling and he's not letting you live your life, and have all the friends you want to have and everything, and you should be able to have that. Also, what kind of boyfriend is he, insulting you like that? No true boyfriend would sit there and call their girlfriend all those names if they really liked them.. especially to their girlfriends FRIENDS.
It sounds to me like he has little repsect for you, and wants you only for himself, which isn't right.
If this isn't a happy relationship, then I suggest getting out of it and breaking up with him. Sure, his feelings are going to get hurt, but they're going to get hurt no matter what happens, and you might as well get out now before your feelings continue to get hurt, too.
Over time, he'll move on. Over time, you'll move on. Take each relationship as a lesson and learn your mistakes and grow from them for the next person, hopefully better person, that's going to come along in your life. ( I know I sound like a fortune cookie or something, lol ).
But I hope I helped.
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