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Q: alright well about 4 years ago i went out with this boy for about a year..he was ABSOLUTLEY my first love and once we broke up we would kinda go back out but not really..and in between those times both of us would have someone we were kinds together with..well about a month or so ago he broke up with his girlfriend and we talk..ALOT,,but i have a boyfriend and i want my ex sooo bad and i dont know what to do..like should i break up with my boyfriend?..im so confused please help :0
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hey...

i don't know you so i may be wrong, but i'm just going to tell you what i think. it seems liek you and your ex go back to each other when other things don't work out, becuase you may be comfortable with each other and know each other well since you were together for a substantial amount of time. everyone you're with since him, and everyone he's with since you, you may be comparing to your relationship. when those new relationships dotn work out, you probably want what you guys used to have. first, ask yourself - do you REALLY like your ex? or do you just miss what you guys had and how you were so comfortable with each other? you shouldn't throw away what you have with your boyfriend now if you like him, because chances are when someone else comes along, your ex might go with that girl.. he might just be using you as a backup. hope i helpedd. if you need anymore drop one in my inboxxx :)

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