Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
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I'm 14/f and I know that I should probably forget about it until later or something but this has been lingering on my mind for a while and it's bothering me.
Well, first I believed in staying a virgin till marriage thing and I still do but it's that when I think about that, that would mean having had sex with only one partner and that bothers me, you know? I wanna experiment with other people than just one person. I don't know. Right now all I can think about when I see a guy that I like is: hmmm, I wanna have sex with him. And I haven't even had my first kiss yet. >.<
Haha, anywhos is this weird of me and what do you think on my thoughts on whether to stya a virgin or not.
And please don't tell me the "folloy my heart" or "you'll know when you're ready" thing. i just wan't a really honest opinion b/c right now, I really wanna just have sex with all my crushes (link)
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Well, you're a teenager, and this is something alot of teenagers get urges to do and really want to do is to have sex. I used to have a really strong urge to myself, just be like,"Do it do it do it", you know? And I myself haven't even had my first kiss, but then I realized,"I want it to be with someone I really care for and know I love and just know that special part of me isn't going to be wasted." And soon, the urges went away, and I still haven't had sex yet, and I'm happy I haven't.
Me, personally, I don't think you should have to wait until marriage unless you're really capable of handling that and it's something you really believe in, which it seems you don't anymore.
I would just at least wait until you really care and love someone, at least for your first time. The first is the one ( I know it's going to sound corny ) but the one you're going to remember for the rest of your life, and if you and your friends are talking about it, you want it to be known as romantic and loving, right? Not like,"Uh, I don't remember his name, but he was hot." Or something like that.
So if you really want my honest opinion, I say wait the first time until you're really sure you love the guy and he loves you and make it special.
I hope I helped.
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