Hey!! My name is Alana and im 13!! I love hanging with my frinds and playing and watching sports!!(mostly baseball and football) Im just hoping that i help you just a little bit if i answered your question, if i helped you more than that is totally kewl!! lol
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Well i'm in the 8th grade, and I dont have a best friend... is that bad??? I'm not saying that I am lonely and I have no friends, I have plenty of friends.. just none of them are actually my BEST friends. Arn't best friends supposed to be there for you when you're feeling low? and they always come and sleepover and you always share secrets with each other? welll it seems like whenever I go up to my other friends, they are always busy with 'their' other best friends. It's like they have no intrest in me anymore. My brother just moved away to college and my cousin is staying with us for a while. I have a dog, could that be my best friend? I just feel like I have a lot of depression going on in my life and I really need somebody to talk to. yes, i know.......... I can talk to you on advicenators, but I need somebody not only for talking... but to share my happy moments with, a best friend
and I know you'll say talk to your family.... but the thing is.. both of my parents are ALWAYS working... they leave the house way earlier than I do... and the next time I see them is when i'm asleep. Its just not fair. My brother is in college, and my cousin is always hanging out with his friends or finding some excuse not to be in the house. I'm really sad that I dont have a best friend, and I'm a very busy person.... could that be the reason why I dont have a best friend? cause i'm always busy and they never have any time with me????????
You might say join a school activity and meet friends there... but TRUST ME! I dont make friends easily, lets just say I get SUPER SUPER SUPER nervous when I meet new people, or give a speech to a class. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!! I FEEL SO ALONE.... I always see kids in the hallway, hanging out with their best friends, and I am really sad that I dont have a best friend there by me. WHAT SHOULD I DO????????????
OH AND IF YOU COULD: ANOTHER QUESTION= HOW DO I GET RID OF THE FEAR OF MEETING NEW PEOPLE AND GIVING OUT SPEECHES??????????????? THANKS SOOOOOOOOO MUCH... I KNOW THIS WAS LONG, BUT THANKS (link)
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Ok well best friends are very hard to come by, its like finding a needle in a haystack. The way it was for me was as soon as i moved i knew nobody but when i met the best friend that i have now i was really shy. So as for the shy thing try hanging with other people, and meet knew people. I know in your question you told me that you dont make friends easy but conquering your fear and speeching to groups will help you meet new people, it helps calm your nerves. I use to be super nervous. Also tell your parents that you need to talk to them about something, and that they need to make time to talk to you. They could probably help you throgh some of the stuff that you are feeling. It is just an idea and I really hope I helped. Just remember best friends and very very very hard to find, so dont feel to sad, my best friend doesn't even live in my state. But just have fun and meet new people and your fear of giving speeches will soon go lessen (sp?) I really do hope i helped =)
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thank you! You give such great advice
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