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I go by Ahnee, to some. and you.
I live in Orange County CA, and it's not as great as it seems. it's just as shady as everywhere else but we're polite enough to keep it behind closed doors. Great.
I'm in highschool.
I have an opinion on just about EVERYTHING, but won't give it to you unless you ask.
I talk to people.
Sometimes i can just be a brutally honest bitch, don't ask me a question you don't want a real answer to. I refuse to coat my thoughts in sugar
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Gender: Female
Location: OC
Member Since: November 4, 2006
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Last summer, this boy that was my BEST FRIEND. Came to my house in the middle of the night, to do it with me. In the beginning when we were on the phone, I played along, I thought he was kidding, I even asked my friends.. i was like.. hes kidding right? & there like oh yeah. So i went with it. Then he told me he'd be at my house later. He doesn't live really close so it was about a 3 mile walk. When he came, of course I said no. Ever since, he got mad at me & hasn't spoken to me since. I miss him, he was my best friend. Was I wrong? I mean at the time, I felt so, so smart & all. That I said no. Now, I feel like I messed up something, I messed up the friendship & its all my fault.

Am I wrong?
How can I make it better?
or realize, i wasn't wrong? .. if i'm not. (link)
ok, lets just remember this. guys are lead by their penis. offending a guy this way can be like stabbing him in the heart. the male ego is very very sensitive and must constantly be stroked.
explain to this guy you honestly thought he was kidding and didn't expect him to actually do it. tell him you still want him as a friend and that you miss having him around. make him feel like he's still wanted


Rating: 5
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