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While I am still young, I have had a great deal of life experience. It is from this that I give advice. I am open minded and try not to be judgemental. If I can help in any way, I will. Just ask. However, like everyone else in this world, I am not perfect. My advice may not always suit you, since my experiences are not the same as yours. If you want clarification on any answers I give, feel free to ask me. If you don't like what I said, or if I offended you, let me know. This is the best way for me to improve on my responses.

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When my relationship with my bf first began he didn't open up to me that much. But I thought it was because our relationship had just started and I needed to give him some time. It has been 2 months now and he still doesn't open up to me. He's so cute and he's really nice, i don't want to have to let him go. I want to know how I can get him to open up more. What should I say? What should I do? Help please.

Most guys just don't open up well. I have been married 7 1/2 years to a man I have known for 13 years now, almost half my life. We started therapy last June. It was only then that he really started to be more open with me. Still not as open as I would like, but I can't really expect too much. Guys just aren't wired that way. Most guys don't think like girls do. They think they are being open, but to us it doesn't seem like it. If it is an important thing you need him to open up about, talk to him specifically about that. Otherwise, give him space when he needs it and be available for when he does want to talk. You can also tell him what you think being open is and then, talking pleasantly with him, you can come to a compromise so that he won't feel uncomfortable or like you are demanding to much out of him and you will feel like he is being more open. But don't expect him to open up about everything. Besides, do you really want to know everything about any guy? There are some things I learned from having guy friends that I would just rather not have known :)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! I love how you told me about your own personal experience. You have helped a lot.
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