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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.
I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)
Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.
What do you guys thimk I should do?
Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?
Thanks. (link)
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You have to go with your gut. If you have been dating for over 2 years, you should most likely be old enough to realize the consequences of having sex. It's good that he isn't pressuring you and will stand by your decision.
The bleeding that comes with losing your virginity is the blood from the hymen, which is broken when the vagina is penetrated. Your body will expand to accomodate his penis, don't worry about that. It may be a bit uncomfortable, but it shouldn't be bad.
The blood loss will be nothing like your period. Imagine a cut on your leg while your shaving and multiply that by 2. That's it. Not bad at all. I would recommend bringing a pantiliner with you, just in case. All girls are different.
Remember to use a condom, and be safe.
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Thank you so much! You are the only person that really helped!! :] Have a good day, and thanks again!! :]
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