I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.
I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.
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my relationship:
im 15/f and i have a boyfriend. he's kind of like my first boyfriend but not really i had 2 other ones but we werent serious and didnt kiss or anything and the longest we went out was for a week. im not really happy with my boyfrined i realize hes not my type but it has only been 2 days of our relationship. we kind of went into things a little too quick cuz i've only known him for less then a month. well anywayz thats whats goin on in my life right now..
okay so sometimes i feel like im lesbian or it could be bisexual. i don't know. would i know if i am? i think that 2 girls in a relationship isn't right(no offense but its just not for me)but then again i look at girls that are attractive sometimes i compare myself to them or i look at them and say they're pretty in my head or had a fat ass or big tits. like i dont noe?? how did you know you were lesbian or gay or bisexual? and how is it being in a realtionship with a girl when you're a girl? (link)
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Lots of people look at other people and pass judgements on their looks. That's normal, no matter what gender the people are. If you are looking at other girls and feeling attracted to them, that is something slightly different.
It sounds as if you don't have a lot of experience in relationships, and that's okay. It also seems you aren't happy with your current boyfriend - it's good that you've realized. Tell him and move on.
You could be mainly attracted to guys and just happened to not particularly like the guys you've been with. Or you could be a different sexuality. Either way, spend your time thinking about what qualities a person you would want to date has. Openness? Brains? A good sense of humour?
Find someone who you really like; going out with someone for the sake of going out probably isn't the greatest idea. If this means you stay single for awhile while you wait for a good person, so be it!
I wish you the best.
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