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I think I may have ruined things between a guy and me. But idk why.
As soon as I go online he'll start talking to me first, and we have been talking since the beggining of 9th grade [we're in 10th now]. And yeah, that particular day I told him that last year I liked him. He didn't say anything really about, he replied 'oh i never knew! 'very neutral. and the next day he imed but then conversation was very different. It seemed very stiff, usually we act like two idiots talking about anything sexual. Then the next day I had to IM him first, which was extremely weird and still! A very stiff conversation. And now he doesn't im me anymore. Hasn't for days.
OH. and we were supposed to go to a haunted house together because he wanted me to be scared and jump all over him, but NOW he told my friend he really didn't feel like going. He said he didn't feel like working hard to make money just to go out for an hour.
So did I do something wrong? How do I say something?! (link)
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Alright, I think you might have freaked out the guy. He probably thinks you want to get it on with him or something like that, and he's not really sure how to say.. "Ermm...eeuu.. not thanks.." in a nice way. So the only way to say it in a discreet way is to disappear till both of you forget about what had happened.
Anyways, some guys do not like the girls to do the first move, so maybe that could be one of the problem.
I suggest you clear things up, and have a slow chat with him, saying that the feelings are passing cloud, probably reached the other side of the world by now, and is not coming back anytime soon.
This is SilkStuy.
P.s: Or maybe, he's gay.
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