Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
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So i liked this guy a lot last year and he was in my school and then in the middle of the school year he switched schools and the day he was leaving our school this one girl told him that i liked him and then he started hating me because i still lived in his neighborhood and he thought i stalked him even though i didnt and he went and told everyone at his new school. So like now hes back in the US( i moved from there and im really far away) so yeah and me and my friend switched schools to the school he was going 2 cuz we hated our school and now i think a lot of people hate me because he spread rumors about me and like i know most of you r gonna say just b urself and ignore them but thats easier said than done because like i dont want people to hate me and stuff...wat should i do?? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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I would suggest talking to people and spreading stuff around your own. Facts, not rumors. Let them know whatever he said you did, none of it is true, you only had a crush on the guy and for some reason, he began hating you. Let them hear your side of the story. Do you have any friends there at all? Ask them to help you spread the word around about what really happened.
If people are going to just listen to some dumb rumor and not really try and get to know a person and make their own judgement about them, that's stupid. They don't even know you ; if they gave you a chance, who knows? You could be their new best friend, but they're too busy listening to what others have to say about stuff they don't even really know about.
But just realize ; new rumors start, old rumors go. So before you know it, people might not even start to care anymore about whats-his-name said, and make take the time to get to you know.
Just start talking to people and be as nice as you can and show them you're a cool person to hang and talk with and you're not as "horrible" as you seem. After awhile, they're opinion on you'll change and hopefully it'll become positive and slowly they'll start to let their friends and other people know you're cool.
I hope I helped.
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