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13/f/8th grade. okay from when i was about 7 to about a year ago, i was a complete tomboy. the only way you could get a dress on my was if i was dead. and guys werent looked at as guys, they were my friends, and sports teammates. now i have changed, but i still play all my same sports. but the people at school and my friends have gotten so used to me as a tomboy that they make fun od me every time they see me in anything girly-ish. and the guys that i grew up playing sports dont see me as a girl really, they see me as a teammate, and it seems like they could never see me as girlfriend material. WHAT DO I DO???
people are going to do that at first. since you were a tomboy for so long, theyre not used to the change. all you can do is just keep wearing the 'girlish' stuff and things like that when you want to, and pretty soon theyll get used to it. if youre friends say anything, just say something like 'i wanted to try something different', or 'who said tomboys cant look cute'? lol. cheesy i kno, but it should at least get a laugh and them more accepted to the idea. and for the guys, just be more flirtatious around them, and theyll realize youre a girl. lol. good luck!
(Rating: 5) lol. thanks. you give really good advice! ill try it out monday.