Hi,My name is Beck and I am 23 years old. I am currently attending a RMIT dental school in Melbourne Australia to get my qualifications. I have been with my partner for nearly 6 years now and have been married for 1 of those 6 years. I love to help people in any way that I can. Please don't be afraid to ask me a question.
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Location: Australia
Occupation: Dental Assistant
Age: 23
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sorry in advance that its a litlle long
ok so...my "ex boyfreind" and i had dated for a little more than a year. and then one night. i was just kind of thinking out loud and i said something about sometimes i think about being single. not like thinking about breaking up with him...but just thinking. but he said that if i really meant it when i told him that i love him then theres no chance that i would want to be single. but so blah blah. we yelled at eachother for a while. and then i decided wel...i need to figure some things out. so we "arent dating" right now. but i told him that there is a chance we will go back out in a while. but the problem is. a. i dont know when that is and i dont know if it will be soon. and b. he is like going crazy. like its killing him that we arent dating.
so i dont know what to do. because i feel bad making him wait, but i cant go back out with him right now because it doesnt seem fair, and i just dont really know if/when i want to date him again.
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One thing you should realise. There should be no obligation in a relationship. You have thought about being single which normally means you may not be ready for a relationship at this stage in time. I think you need to ask yourself whats really important in your life. Your feelings or your so called boyfriend.
To go through the ps he is getting a major case of the green eyed monster. It is not fair to put you in that position. If thats how he feels then is he really worth it?? I say NO!!
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thanks. i mean. i just feel bad because hes like so torn up
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