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13/f
Ok, I have just gotten out of a 1 year relationship with someone. [We'll call him Jay.] We are still best friends and all, but that isnt my problem. You see, I like this other guy now, and I think he likes me. But when I say I like someone else, Jay goes all sad on me and says stuff like, "I know you hate me and I understand that you want to be with another guy" Which isn't totally true. Because I still want to be Jay's friend. How do I tell him to back off without being mean? (link)
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Here's what I'd say if I were you
Jay, you're my friend and I love you, but seriously you need to give me some space. We're not in a relationship anymore and I don't want you to worry about me dealing with any more guys because it's going to happen. I don't hate you, you're a great guy, but we're only 13 and I want to meet new guys. Do you have a problem with that?
Maybe that's a little on the mean side, but if he's going to be a littly pussy about it then let him be. He'll just feel stupid about the whole ordeal later on in highschool when he looks back and wonders why he didn't see how good of a FRIEND you were.
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