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I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.
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my relationships dont last, but my new bf for once is.. the love of my life. How can i try to make it last?
or any tips?
P.s. i always break up with them, why.. i dont know, would there be any reasons why? Is it possible that im a slut? (link)
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Most relationships end. If this weren't the case, everyone would end up being with their first boyfriend/girlfriend for life.
Chances are you'll date many people throughout your teens and twenties; this is normal.
One thing you could do is take some time to reflect on your past relationships. Do you see any patterns there, or did things not work out for individual reasons?
Patterns might indicate things you need to be careful of in this new relationship. For example, if you always feel the guy isn't giving you enough time - that might be the case, but it also might be that you have some problems around wanting more than people are willing to give.
I don't think you're a slut; no one would. I wish you the very best of luck in this relationship. Things that always help - honesty, talking about any problems, and reflecting about your feelings regularly.
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