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hey well my name is Amber. i'm pretty much an average teenager. i love my friends and everything like that. but i also love to help people out. i like to give advice &i try my hardest to help people be happy. when i help someone it makes me happy :]] so don't be scared &askk. i'll answer anything!

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Tonight possibly, or eventually sooner or later, im gonna hang out with my ex boyfriend..who was deffinitly my first love. I like this kid so much, even after we broke up at the beginging of summer till now my feelings havent changed. I tried being with other guys over the summer, but everytime i was with them all i could think about was my ex. Reasons why we broke up were cause he thoguht i didnt wanna be with him. just little things he said. and we fought so much, but over basic things like jealousy. My friends also were a big reason we broke up, they didnt want us together.. and they told him things that werent true. Anyways, schools started.. and now we're in the same school together. I see him everyday, and it hit me the other day. Whos he gonna take to homecommin? i flipped out. Seeing him in school with another girl or anywhere, would honestly kill me. I just wanna tell him very soon in person, how i feel. He used to always tell me i was the closest thing to love he ever felt. One of the guys i tried talkin to over the summer, made me realize how i treated my ex. If i had actually understood that i did that, i wouldnt have. Now I know, and I just need to tell him i still am like in love with him, I dont wanna be with anyone else, and i understand what i did wrong. Its not that easy though, cause right now its like our second time hanging out since we broke up, and things are still awkward


In person, how should i tell him this. I have so many ideas in my head but some are commin off to strong, and i cant just force him into anything. I need help! :(

omg, girl i am like in a very similar situation. but i think you should tell this boy that you still like him. you can't be like i miss you and i want you back or anything because like you said, that is commin off too strong. but i think you should deff. tell him you like him. ask him how he feels about you. as much as it may hurt, knowing the truth is a thousand times better than wondering. trust me. and then take things from there. good luck, and i hope i helped.

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(Rating: 5) haha thankss, i told him in a way so far.. im just waitin to be in person with him to tell him everything though. =)
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