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Q: hi, i just took a really long shoping trip at the mall for back to school shopping with my parents. when we went i needed to buy shirts and pants and whatever i looked at my mom kept saying thats too tight or its going to get too small. she told me to get everything one size bigger. i came home and went to the bath room and burst into tears. i gained a little bitt of weight this summer and everyone has been noticing. its not even like im fat... im like s\'6 and weigh 120ish my doctor told me im average, but now i feel fat. my aunt and my cousins keep mentioning things like hmmm you should be carefull what you eat or sweety your not any skinnnier than me. and my moms friends are also telling me.. at a party 1 of them even told me i looked fat
\" your looking fat, i mean dont mind but you use to be soo skinny\"
ever since she said that my self esteem has been crushed.. everytime i look at food i think calories calories calories!!. im disgusted with the mirror and today after i came home i just threw up on opurpose...i runn every day on my treadmill and excersise but im not losing any weight... i hate trying on clothes and feel so low ad depressed.... what do i do? your a stranger and i dont no who else to ask and i really need ur help .... thankyou.

ok well fuck them all sorry for my langauge but you are the way you are who cares what they think.I am not skinny but i know i am not fat either and i know recently i gained weight but i dont worry.Trying on clothes is hard on any one who isnt toothpick skinny. this world was made for skin and bones not for healthy beautiful happy girls.throwing up is just plain gross you dont want to do that or be anorexic you are fine the way you are and you dont need a stranger to tell you that!!!!dont worry about it just be happy.eat what the heck you want wear what the heck you want be who the heck you want to be and see who the heck you wanna see.you are your own person no one has the right to say you are fat no one has the right to say anything about you so ya.let no worrys bother you let no person bother you so just be happy just be happy just be happy just be happy with the way you are.

~nikki~
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