Hiya people, my name is jemma! I am doing my A levels at the moment, and loving being a student. I'm taking: classical civilisation, english language, photography and buisness studies!! I still don't know what i want to be when im older but not many people do at my age! For the time being im happy with hanging around with my friends and enjoying life. In my spare time i love to watch movies and im absolutely addicted to msn. so ill speak to you soon. love jem xxxxxxxxx
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 4 months now. Are relationship is normally awesome. But lately he has been accusing me of cheating on him with my best friend who is a guy (who is really hott) His looks has nothin to do with our friendship. But I am completely dedicated to my boyfriend and only him. I tell him that time and time again. But the only way our relationship is going to last is if he accepts the fact that my best friend is going to always be a big part of my life. So if anyone had any suggestions on how to get my boyfriend to understand it would be really appreciated. (link)
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well....it sounds like your boyfriend is accusing you of cheating not because he thinks that you are but because you have another man in your life to look out for you and take care of you. Your boyfriend obviously doesn't like that because to be honest no man does, every man who is going out with someone wants to be the only man to protect them and look after them and doesn’t want or need anyone else help to do so, if you get upset your boyfriend wants you to go to him, and not your best friend. It also doesn't help that your best friend is fit, and you probably tell him thing's you don't tell your boyfriend, just imagine his best friend was a really fit girl and think how insecure you would feel. I know you regard both of them highly and spend equal time with them, but if you see yourself being with your boyfriend long term try spend a bit more time with him, your best friend will understand and will still be there for you to fall back on. If thing's don’t change after a while remember that friends are forever and boyfriends come and go. Hope I helped love jem xxxxxxxxxx
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wow!that was really great advice. thank you so much.
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