Hiya people, my name is jemma! I am doing my A levels at the moment, and loving being a student. I'm taking: classical civilisation, english language, photography and buisness studies!! I still don't know what i want to be when im older but not many people do at my age! For the time being im happy with hanging around with my friends and enjoying life. In my spare time i love to watch movies and im absolutely addicted to msn. so ill speak to you soon. love jem xxxxxxxxx
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Age: 17
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Ok, this might be long so I'm sorry hehe. Im 15 and female and have been with my boyfriend for a year. When we first got toegther he was really romantic and sweet (imporant thing for me) and it was great and we were getting on really well. Now it seems as if he couldn't care less about us. We only see each other twice a week...if that. Everytime he leave to go home I end up in tears because i feel like things are beyond repair. He often makes little comments which make me feel like crap, he also brags a lot which make me feel worse because he has a lot of money and gets a lot of things. He spends a lot of time with his mates and has said in the past that they come before me, which is fair enough. He doesnt very often make the effort to see me so I'm always changing what I'm doing for him. All the romantic stuff is gone, and I guess I just feel like he would rather be with someone else. I havent told him any of this because in the past if I have had a problem with him he acts like he is perfect and thats its my fault and then makes me feel like im some kind of paranoid-weird girlfriend. I want this to all work out because I love him so much and I know deep down he loves me too. But if he doesnt start showing that he cares then I'm going to have to let go..... if i can that is because its failed int he past.... any advice is very much appriciated! thank you! :) (link)
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Hey babes, well this is a problem i can relate to. I was with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and like your boyfriend he started treating me like crap, my self-esteem went down hill and i was constantly crying. I know you love him so much and probably can't see your life without him but trust me waiting for him to return your love is hopeless. im sorry to say it but it's true. You need someone who thinks your the most beautiful girl in the world even if you just got out of bed and your make-up is a mess. You have been with this guy for a year and you should be able to tell him how you feel, and his friends should NOT come before you, not this far into a relationship. I know it's going to hurt and you will feel like there is no one else for you in the world but there is. The longer you leave it the harder it will be, so look at it like this, you can either stay with him and be unhappy for a long time or end thing's and let the heeling process begin. So please darling leave him, i put up with mine like that for a whole year and it nearly destroyed me, im goin on 4 weeks now and it still hurts but im feelin more confident and happy with each day. You deserve to be treated like a goddess not like you don't matter. You will make it through babes i promise. love jem xxxxxxxx
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Wow lol just reading that made me feel so much better and it has really helped. thank you so much xxxxx
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