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Hello out there! My name's Kim AKA PurplePudgyPenguin or PPP. I'm happily 16! I'm young but I'm smart (at least my friends claim, I dont think so though, lol, I'm such a nerd) Well, if you want some advice, despite how young I am, I'll be more than happy to give it to you. So just send me an email, or write on my advice column. Thank you all! Stay positive and live life to its fullest. Byez!!!

Luvs,
~PPP~

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I finished school early today and I went to meet my mum outside the school. As I was getting into the car, I noticed the most popular guy in school walk past and he goes "Thanks for last night! See you tomorrow"

I don't get it. What exactly did he mean by this? My mum said he was trying to make me laugh. I'm..err.. not so popular so I have no clue why he would talk to me. He blew me a kiss once when I was in the car with my mum too. He is a major flirt and does get a lot of girls so I'm not sure if it means anything.

What's going on here? Was this just a joke or did he have some hidden agenda?

thanks.

Hello there! I'm PurplePudgyPenguin, and I'm your 8th.. I think... advice giver! Okay, so by now you've probably made up your mind but it can't hurt to hear my advice right? *cricket chirps* aw.. Anyways! Down to business!

Well, I've gone deep inside the times of space and viewed your future!!! ... No not really (Wouldn't that be cool if I did though? It'd be neat! I could predict the lottery and... Woah off subject! Sorry!). I've come up with a few ideas to why he did what he did, his intentions, your approach, and all that other good stuff. Keep in mind, this is plain advice. Don't pick any of these and just follow it. Do what feels right to YOU. These are merely suggestions:

1) He's definately into you. He may sound like he's being a smarta---butt.. but he may like you as well. Don't be shy to go up to him and talk to him. If he still comes up as a jerk, or being sarcastic, just try to be patient. Boys are sometimes difficult like that. If he mocks you or picks fun at you, give him the cold shoulder and walk away. Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing he hurt your feelings (if that's the outcome), but turn proudly and walk away with your chest puffed out.
2) He's just poking fun at you. My experience with popular boys has been that they live for putting people down to make themselves feel tall. This is called a 'cruel high'. In this case, watch him, be patient with his movements, study what he says carefully. If it's mocking, or too sarcastic to be gentle or meaningful, ignore him, or mock him back. Give him responses such as, "Hey toots", or blow him a kiss in return with a cocky smile. There's no rules in love and war.
3) Undeveloped feelings. He may be struggling with himself if he likes you. In this case, don't approach him forcefully, thinking you'll end up in a relationship. Act as though what he says does not register. Instead, ask him if he'd like to study, do some homework together, or eat lunch. Friendly questions or a simple "how was your day?". Be careful though, undeveloped love means that it can easily shift to hate or nuetral feeling.
4) He's showing off. If you see a group of friends around him when he does these things, ignore it. There's no chance for love in this case. Hold your head up high and keep waiting, cause sooner or later a better, more compassionate man is going to float your way.

Well, that pretty much sums it up. Sorry for the length, I tend to go into explanations a lot. If my advice wasn't to your liking, you have.. *counts* 7 others here that will be more than happy to listen to you. I do hope and wish you the best with your problem. And remember, no matter what, hold your head up high for all of us girls. =)

Luvs
~PPP~

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