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if i were you, first, i would sit her down - just you & her, in person - and talk to her. tell her what you've noticed; how it seems that she can't let you have anything good, she gets jealous over everything good that happens to you, etc. tell her it's really bothering you and holding you back. tell her that she's your friend and you don't want to loose her, but the way she's been behaving isn't what a friend would do. don't get defensive, yell or use a mean tone - use a normal tone and try and be understanding so you give her no excuse to cause a scene. if she does, or she denies everything and refuses to change her ways, well, you tried your hardest and did everything you could to try and fix it. you want to distance yourself from her - in your classes, hang out with other people. try getting closer to some of your other friends. and, out side of school, start hanging out with other people (without her.) good luck!
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