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Q: hi! sorry if this might be a bit long but i realy need an answer
me and one of my friends do voulentire work at a farm with people with learnin disabilities. the other day this woman brought to baby guineapigs in and i took one and my friend took one! there reali little only about as big as a hamster and we were goin to put them wih our pet rabbits but i thort that it was to small and that my rabbit might hurt it so its in a cage in the house now but my friend did after i said it mite be to small and her rabbit stood on it and she had to get it put to sleep! the staff at farm are all ace! but my friend turned round and told my not to say out about having it put to sleep as hey might hink she cant look after it properly but i fel sooo bad lieing to then about it as they ask daily how our guineapigs are both getting on and i hate it when my friend turnes round and say its hers is fine!! i want to tell the staff at farm as i hate having to lie to them but i promised i wouldnt to my friend and if i did say something to them she deffinatly wouldnt talk to me whitth them causes problems at farm as i no from experiance!! also if i did say that and then the staff know that she was lieing to them they might think less of her and it would be all my fault
sorry its so long but im realy stuck about what to do xx thank you

try talking to your friend tell her how you feel if you feel uncomfortable talking to her email her or write a letter maybe she will tell them her self tell her that she is putting you in a horrible postionand this is really starting to effect you,make sure to tell her how good of a friend she is and how you dont want to loose her over this but you cant lie any more if she gets mad say sorry but it wont be so bad maybe you could just tell them the pet just died like yesterday talk to her about it though you guys will be able to work it out
tell me how it goes bye

~nikki~
lalagurly

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hi! thanks you talk a lot of cense! its just shes not a person you can sit down and realy tal to overthings shes still childish and just laughs at everything you have to say but hey ill give it a try

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