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ok me and my boy friend have been thinking about having sex and he has had sex with people befor but i am a vergin, he told me that in the past he has just pulled it out befor the came instead of using a condom... and thats what he wants to do but i dontkno if that is compleatly safe..plz tell me if this is safe i need to kno! thank you! byes

One of my dear friends lost her virginity to a guy who had had sex with others before her. She ended up with an std and a pregnancy scare because she believed him when he said the same thing. Luckily, it was an std that was treatable and she was not pregnant.
The facts regarding pulling out and pregnancy are simple. Most of the semen comes out with ejaculation, and many guys do know when that will happen and can pull out at that time. However, some comes out before, and that can't be predicted. It only takes one sperm to cause pregnancy. In the pre-ejaculate, there are still a lot of the little guys getting out. So, it is still very possible to get pregnant.
Do not have sex with him unless he gets tested for std's. As for the condom thing, you can always get the pill or a diaphram or a female condom. But if you are not making him use a condom, make sure he gets tested first and that you are aware of the possible consequences.

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