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i'm Brittany and though I'm only 14, I'm really good at the psycology of teens. I usually don't use the answer "you should go to a counsler" or anything similiar to that. Although that is a good idea in many situations, I tend to realize that most teens have thought about that and most of them refuse to talk to a counsler about it. If you want a straight up answer without all the "you shouldn't have done that" talk, let me know.
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sorry i left out this part i was copy pastin n it got all messed up heres the continuation of the otehr one and tahnx for reading it i reli appreciate it.
I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol
He is a major player. My advice: leave him before he leaves you. This is the stuff you only KNOW he doing behind your back. What do you think he's doing that you don't know about. Most likly a lot more. He is unfaithful and not a relationship kind of guy. I know what you mean by "he's so not like this". What may have happened is now that he has a girlfriend, all the girls want him. (that always happens to people... once they get a girlfriend/boyfriend, everyone has a crush and flirts with them). So since all the girls want him, he feels like "the man" and feels like he can get anyone he wants. Because of that he thinks of himself higher than everyone- even you, so he treats you like shit.
Here's the plan. You leave him. A good way to break it to him is (on the phone) :You know, I've been thinking a lot while you were gone... and heard that you've done some pretty bad stuff behind my back. (make sure you don't tell him what you heard or who you heard from). I think it would be best if we were just friends." After you leave him eventually he will be the same un-flirtatious guy he used to be. None of the girls will like him like they do now. He will realize that you were the only one that truly loved him. Then he will come running back to you for forgiveness. Happy ending.
Let me know if you need anymore advicee. ♥
Ex's and Oh's,
-brittany
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thanxx.
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