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Q: Ever since summer started, it seems that all i do is sit around all day. I always call my friends, and ask if they want to hang out, but there always busy. I know for a fact, that some of my friends parents, do not like me, but its not fair that they keep my best friends from seeing me.
For instance, everytime i call my friend kirstie, she's always busy. I'll ask if she wants to hang out, but she says, "oh, my parents are already doing stuff with me today" or, "I already promised my mom i would hang out with her." And, she's always complaing about this girl, that is kinda...the emo one in our group, but it seems like she hangs out with her more than me. It really hurts, because she always says were best friends, but arn't best friends supossed to hang out?

I just really want to know, if maybe i should try to push more to hang out, or give up, or...i dont know, it just stinks cause i'm always alone.

Please help!

Ps. sorry its so long!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

~Melissa~
Well,I understand it hurts.Maybe try to talk to her and tell her how you feel.Maybe you can compramise.Make dates of what your doing and tell her not to break them.Maybe try out for a team or join a club so you can spend more time together.

And it's not fair that you can't see her.Why don't you talk to the parents about it and tell them you really want to be there childs friend.If all else fails have your parents talk to them.

Don't yell at them.It will make it worse.Just state your opinion and then listen to theres.It will help more then yelling.

Hope it all works out
~Kelleigh

thanks, by the way, the reason they dont like me, is cause i got arrested, but i was found innocent, but they think i'm guilty..>.

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kelleigh
Ok,HI!My name is Kelli and I'm 13.Kelleigh is my nickname from my friend Meg.I like softball,track,IMing,myspace,forums,and pictures.I have many friends and always looking for more ^-^ I'm not a goody-goody type of girl so you watch out.I like to help people and go on the computer.So if you need anything you know were to find me.

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