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Hey my name is missy :) Umm...ask me a question and I'll try my best to answer.
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i know its wrong but all my friends have had sex, and thats all they talk about so i told them i have had sex too and i was like centre of attension... i know its wrong to lie but i hated feeling left out. Now i have got this boyfriend hes like well older than me about 4 years, and he understands i want to take things slow but now all my friends make comments like "dont do anything i woudnt do" and "use a johnny".
But i havent bein with him long and when we are making out i cant help bu thinking i know he wants to rip my clothes of and have sex but the truth is im scared...has anyone got any tips for having sex for the first time??
Please dont stay your a ass you lied to your mates, i know that already im looking for REAL advice!! And truth is im glad i lied..
I didn't read any advice people wrote below so I have no idea if its similar. I've been thinking the same thing except all my freinds haven't but I've really been considering doing it. It just made me feel like imature in comparison to the people who had done more and not equal to them. Then one day randomly I was talking to my mom about some guy and she was telling me that your virginity is YOURS! Thats your pride and your jewel. Do you wanna give away what is yours without someone earning it? That's yours you only have it once and once that moments over you won't get it back. That's what I thought and I realized it wasn't worth it. I'd rather be able to say I'm a virgin and I haven't done it with tons of guys. It's a matter of respect for yourself, screw everybody else & that's the truth. Don't do anything just because someone else did. It's stupid and is this the guy you want to remember giving it up to at 14! Has he truly earned it and do you even love him? Just think about it. I wouldn't do it. Good Luck w/ everything! Need anything don't hesitate.
(Rating: 5) heya huni ive actully gt a column on ere jus needed some advice of my own thanks u reli helped me !!