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Q: Okay, I'm friends with benifits with my bestfriends boyfriend!him and i were friends with benifits before they started dating though!, His name is Houston, And he is so in love with me, and recently he told me he wanted to be more than friends with benifits with me. He's charming, hot, nice, flirty, cute, tall, muscular, and just wow, hot! But he is going out with one of my BESTFRIENDS now and i don't know what to do, him and i are still friends with benifits, even though he is dating my bestfriend! AHH! I know he doesn't like her though because he told me that he loves me and he is gonna break up with her, and I guess you could say, I'm way more popular than my friend, i get every guy i want, and she hardly gets any guy, so i don't want to like, ruin her relationship, but like, i had him first! But I'm the kind of girl that if a girls boyfriend is interested in me, I will go after him, too, ( If he's cute)! But usually the guy isn't going out with my best-friend! So I don't know what to do, and I told my friend EVERYTHING that has happened between him and I, and she's still my friend, and she understands, but Houston and my friend are still dating, and I like him a lot, and she likes him a lot, and before they were going out, him and I were friends with benifits, so really I had him first! But I don't know what to do, I can't tell her that I had him first because she would be sad! HELP ME MARISSA! I NEED YOUR GREAT ADVICE!
hey thanks for the compliment first of all. Well, you really like this guy? Or is he just another guy you will go out with for maybe a few days and then break up with. I mean your friend sounds really good. She sounds like a true friend because she did understand what you told her. But you know part of being best friends is not keeping secrets. You have to be completely honest with your friend. You should tell her. And if she's okay with that then that's good. If she's not just give her awhile to cool off and then you guys might be cool again. You could also tell her that you could maybe set her up with someone else or even try to help her find somebody else. That would be nice since you are way more popular than her. She would be very thankful if you found her somebody else. Then maybe you guys could double date sometime ;)
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Hey my name is Marissa. You can ask me basically anything. If you need help i'll do my best to answer. (Maybe not electronic type questions but fashion,gf/bf stuff,friends,crushes,and much much more. If you ask me something I give the honest truth(sorry if it hurts but thats just how I am). I decided to make a column because i just love helping people and i love it when I get good comments saying THANKYOUSOMUCH! ♥ you guys make my day when you leave me good feedback! :)
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