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Ok so heres whats happening,
a little while ago my uncle lost his job, went in to depression and said he was going to commit sucide and then my friend started to slit her wrists and i'm getting scared. It's makeing me sad and i don't want to have to deal with her of even be around her cause i can't take the stress but at the same time i don't want to loose my friends.
If i don't hang out with them they will tell me i'm becomeing antisocial and thats not what i want i'm only 14 and this is way to much for me to deal with please dose anyone know what i should do? Or a way to relax

thanks,
becca

MY first piece of advise is to talk to your friends or whom ever is cutting their self and tell them to go see a couseler ( sorry if that is mispelled ). Couselers arent people that try to boss you around they are people that you can tell everyone to. If your friends or whom ever you need to talk to says no about going to a see a couseler then you need to take bigger steps if your really that scared. I highly doubt your friend is intentionally trying to kill herself. Shes probably just trying to get you to feel bad for her , and if she really does want to die then you need to get help for her. Tell her parents if they dont know and if they do then they need to get help. and if they know that she is cutting herself and they arent getting help then they arent good parents. If things get to out of control then you need to call the police or something.


Staying away from your friend that cuts his/her self isnt going to help. you cant handle the stress? well i bet he/her has alot more stress living then you being around them. You really need to be a good friend and help her. If he/she ever goes into the bathroom too long check on her/him. try to be around your friend alot and explain to her. Ive been through this stage before where i wanted to kill myself , so it would be easy for me to talk to your friend. So just try to do the things above. and i hope it all works out for you and your friend:]

&&heart's;;kayla

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(Rating: 5) thanks it's just this is the around the 5th time shes done it and i was supportive until last night she went amazingly close to really doing it. One thing i didn't mention is her mother is insane literaly and she won't talk to me about it anymore i'm just tired of worrying ya know,
thanks
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