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16/F,this girl who use to bully me so badly in 5th grade continues to gossip and say all of this crap about me in high school. Because of her actions, I've had a low self-esteem.
I could care less about what she says or thinks about me cause her opinions don't matter to me at all. Usually, I'll just ignore her and I won't let it bother me. I was willing to forget about the past and forgive her but she just refuses. I think that she is really immature for holding a grudge against me for so long. My best friend told me that she could be jealous or she needs to pick on someone to make herself feel better. But, I'm wondering what is her problem and why do you think she continues to do this?
A lot of people deal with almost this same exact problem including me. People are so cruel, and very immature. It sounds like this girl is just doing this because she is so bored with her own life she needs to stick her nose into somebody elses. You can talk to her, and be like "I'm not sure what your problem is but I'm really sick of all this crap, we are 16 not 10 and I've tried to be nice to you, I just think it's stupid that your gossiping nobody in there life needs extra drama they've already gotten enough" But personally I would just completely ignore her, hopefully she will relize it doesn't make you upset and she will sadly go on to the next person. See bullys like to pick on people that it gets to, it's almost like they enjoy seeing people hurt. So if you just don't let it bother you then I hope they will move on and leave you alone. If you want to stick up for yourself you most certainly can, but if you just want to ignore it and have them move on maybe even quicker thats fine too! Your best friend was right, they are probably jealous of you, you seem like a very nice girl!Don't ever have a low self-esteem because of these people, there sad pathetic people who I sometimes feel bad for because they don't have anything going for themselves! Good Luck! I hope I helped at all!
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