I need serious help. OK it started yesterday, I was happy given people advice. All of a sudden, there's about 50 gay people asking me to go out with them or help me get them a boyfriend. Can someone tell me how to make them leave me alone? I've tried everything I posted that im straight and have a girlfriend in my profile, I tried ignoring the questions, and I tried helping them but they won't leave me alone. It's starting to kinda scare me. Help is much apreciated. Oh, and if they're some little kid trying to be funny, cut the crap your annoying.
First off, there is a simple one word explanation for your problem. PRE-JUDICE! Would it bother you so much if these people werent gay? What if it was a bunch of straight people hitting on you? Would u mind then? The fact that they are gay does not make them bad people and it seems to me that is the ONLY problem that you have with them. I personally am straight as well, but I have a TON of gay friends and lesbian friends. You need to be more accepting of people who arent like yourself. Just a thought. Not trying to jump your case or anything but gay people are no different. Now, to address your other issue about them "hitting on you" or whatever. There is a simple solution, tell them your taken and leave u alone. If they don't then it become a PERSONAL PROBLEM... not a "GAY" problem. The gayness virtually plays NO FACTOR here... its just the ONLY reason it annoys you. I urge you to broaden your horizons and be more open minded and accepting of people. I love my friends... ALL OF THEM... gay/straight/lesbian or whatever they are. THEIR SEXUALITY DOES NOT DEFINE WHO THEY ARE! Remember that. Hope I helped and gnite.
P.S. Giving advice means taking in ALL advice... you cant be prejudice... otherwise... your not being fair and frankly not a good advisor. You have to take the good in with the bad (although Gay is in no way BAD).
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Dude, I don't like the fact they were hitting on me. Plus, I would mind if they were straight seeing as I already have a girlfriend. Personally, I like gay people It's when they're hitting on me in when I feel uncomfortable.
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