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I feel like I am ready to have sex with my boyfriend. My problem is that I was raped and thats how I really lost my virginity. This would be my real first time and I dont want to be nervous or bad at it sense my boyfriend is experianced.
first question: How can I stop my nerves
second question: How can I make it romantic and nice for him. making love not just sex.
and any other advice you have.
thank you
babe, of course you will be nervous. everyone is their first time. what you eed to do is talk to him. i know it sounds dumb and corny but it's what i did. and hun, i was raped my first time to. by my boyfriend at the time. i didn't consent i was only 13. but you move on and you feel comfortable once again with yourself. you need to sit your boyfriend down and explain to him that you really want it to be romantic and you love him but your really nervous. if he truly cares he will understand and he'll take it slow. just talk about it, if you're thinking right now that you can't talk to him, clearly you are not ready. just take my words and think about it. hope i helped babe.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much