My name is Heather im 14 going into high school. I play basketball and volleyball, and just enjoy partying and gettin out with my friends. Im really good on advice, like everyone comes to me. Things that are serious that i've done is helped a kid get out of wanting to kill himself. I'm realy nice and i just love to help anyone and everyone, ill try my best to help you out.
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ok well...sorry if this is too long but..... i have been gettin these strong feelings....first i thought....no sex before marriage.......then i thought.... you know sex before marriage is not that bad....then now i am thinking it is great to have sex AFTER marriage, but then i am asking all these questions in my head..what if he doesnt like my body? what if...this happens what if that... i have been thiking alot ...and i have been lusting....ye lol...and i have been having these ideas maybe a month ago..children? my ass i am adopting..now i think it would be cool to have a baby..just a life and all the beauty..and since i am getting these ideas to be married of course i will have a baby IN marriage.....and then i am getting these thoughts it would be a beautiful thing to do this...and then i am thinking oh i wanna have a child and get married at 19..then i am like what am i thinking? then i am thinking 20..no 26.....and i am all copnfused and THINKING A LOT .. i have just layed on my bad and thought......and i think about sex.... yup..and i really feell i need to do something about this...please help!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Relax =) haha its your choice to have sex before marriage or not! He wont not like your body, and if your about to get married with some guy then id immagine he loved you enough to love your body no matter what! Wait to have kids untill after your married. you and your guy should be able to talk it all over and agree when its the right time to have them! Everything in your life should feel like the right time, not just a feeling of pressure and how great it would be! Dont rush into anything, it should just come to you. Hope i helped you! =)
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