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hey! well im 15/f and ive had some boy troubles lately. well theres this guy and hes actually my cousins neighbor. ive always thought he was adorable but this summer ive been more outgoing and we actually started talking and i wasnt shy around him or anything! im always over at my cousins because we are like best friends. well you see this guy "kevin" (my cousins neighbor) and me started flirting alot like we'd wrestle just any kind of flirt! until i knew he liked this girl but me and him were talking and how ive never had a boyfriend and hes like yeah thats a good thing though because then you dont have to worry about things. and hes like i like this girl tara and i want to go out with her but then im scared if i go out with her that i will like someone else too. well at this point i was thinkin hmmm...does he maybe like me? or whats he thinking. well the next day i find out that they are going out. im a little jealous because now i know we cant flirt like we use to!! but guess what? everytime i see him he kinda starts flirting with me. i do it back i know i shouldnt because he has a girlfriend but i just cant help it!!! like tonight i was over there and me and my cousin came back from our friends house and him and my other cousin (nick) were sittin in his garage and i start playin basketball in kevins driveway. well we all start kinda playin a game but then its my cousin and her brother (which would be my other cousin) and then me and kevin guardin each other. well we forget about the game and kevin like grabs me from behind and like holds me...like sayin ohhh i got you now you cant get out and all this stuff! i was like "Ahhh :]" i love this! haha. but then in the back of my mind im like whats he doing..whats he thinking..he has a GIRLFRIEND. :[
i just dont know! he is so confusing and please dont tell me not to stop talking to seeing him or hanging out with him because thats never gonna happen i can tell you that. him and his girlfriend havent hung out much because there so busy with baseball so im not sure whats goin on. hes so nice adorable just everything i can talk to him so easily! but i dont get how we can flirt so much like touchy flirt and he has a girlfriend. hes not one to cheat on a girl or anything either trust me plus we were talking and he said he would never cheat on a girl.
soo what do you think he is thinking?..what would you do in my case..when im around him?!
i think i like him =p but just dont want to admitt it to anyone or anything since i shouldnt even try since he has a girlfriend.
well THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR TIME
Well this is a tough situation. I read through your hole problem and I didn't see that you guys were kissing or like holding hands. I think if he has a girlfriend fine, you shouldn't be doing any kissing, making out ect. that would be cheating. Don't stop talking to him, just try to make sure it stays at just flirting. From reading your problem I kind of think he likes you if he keeps coming and flirting with you. Just make sure you are putting yourself in the girlfriends shoes and treat her like you'd want to be treated if you were her. Haha thats kind of confusing. Anyways flirting isn't cheating, but make sure you are keeping it at that. If you really like this guy, make sure you talk to him. It's very important, if you tell him that you like him maybe he will tell you the same. I wish the best of luck. I hope I helped at all! Any questions or anything feel free to write. I love feedback good and bad! Oh and in your case, I would continue flirting but not to the point were I'm feeling guilty about it. Don't ever put yourself in a position where you feel guilty! Good Luck! ;)
Love,
Molly
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thank you so much! and yes we werent kissing or anything but you have made me realize that i can still flirt with him but just not go any further.
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