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Ok I can answer almost anything and know I am stuck on a single family problume! Ahh but thanks for your help ahead of time!!! Ok my parents are always fighting I mean always! They fight over my dad always yelling at me cussing me out and stuff like that! Then this past school some girl who I had never talked to only maybe once or twice. Told the office that I was being abussed because i had bruises on me. Yeah my da had hit me and so on and so on, but they didn't even let me talk very much or anything to say my side or anything. They called childrens services and they came to my house. My dad lied to them in front of every onen else in my family and he said that it was just from be that I was falling of my horse running barrels and he grabed me because he didn't want me to hurt my self! He yells at me all the time and he is hardly ever home but when he is I am always in the worst mood because I don't want to be around him! He once told me to get the hell out of his life! I tryed to run away this was about a year ago! And i have also tryed to run away in the past as well! But I don't do that any more because my mom swares that if she lost me she would get killed! But know onto my brother... he is just like my dad except the beating of him is worse! I will do one thing wrong like leave up the foot rest on our couch and he will sit there and screem at the top of his lugs at me for it. I cant look people in the eyes I never have it makes me feel weired but then he punches me and kicks me and things like that! he does it all the time! he has cut me with knifes and spoons and thrown me down stairs! Too What i am saying is also he is getting married and she wants kids! I have tryed to tell her but she is too in love with my brother to understand me! I am worrried for my brothers fiancee(sp?) and his future kids and also what can I do about my parents and my brother? I am so stressed out I don't know how to handle it!!! Please Help I need it bad! Also Sorry this is soo long!!!
hey, in my opinion this is serious. you need to tell the police or social services that your being abused and your mom too. social services has special programs and help where your mom gets help to get back on her feet. this is very serious if your brother is cutting you with knives!!! but for now you need to confide in the police and a friend and dont leave your mom behind if you think she is goin to get beat. also for future reference in any situation you need to stand up for your self. look people in the eye and talk in a stern dominant voice. and always keep eye contact dont look away because it show that you are scared. so please involve social services, the police, your school guidance counselor, and a very good friend who can help you and your mother.
I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT!!!!
-Mr.Advice1120
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(Rating: 5) I will if I rember! LOL I just I know I can look people In the eye it just makes me feel really uncomfertable(sp?) But yeah me and my mom have thought about leaving, and I think it is getting more and more serious for her! But I don't know I really don't