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Hi. My name is Stefanie. I am 13 years old. I will try my best to answer your questions. Rate me highh=)

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Okay, so I'm pretty much a hardcore soccer player. I play it often. But my mom is always thinking she knows so much about it, and I tell you she doesn't.

She yells at me for stupid mistakes, for everything that goes wrong in our house, and finds ways to call me a loser, loner, and that I suck at stuff, without actually saying it. She's called me a bitch so many times I couldn't count. But my real question is, is what she doing really abuse?

People have told me it was, but I just don't know anymore. She did physically abuse me ages 7-10, maybe that's why I'm not sure or not. And I've been depressed, at least I think a lot. She's making me want to quit soccer from all the camps and stress. And many of my close soccer friends are scared of that because I'm that one girl on the team who puts on a good additude, never gives up, gives it her all, knows what she needs to fix, and would miss what is important to her just to play. And I also go outside and practice often. And I just can't play well anymore and starting not to love it.

so is it abuse?

any help or advice would be amazing.

My first question is, what IS she doing to find ways to call you a loser and all the crap? Is she like physically hurting you? but anyways..like you said, that she has abused you before, then yeah i would say its abuse. but its only abuse if you get physically hurt. and it can be mental abuse for her calling you names like loser, loner ect. i think you should stick with soccer if your really good at it. You can get a scholership for soccer, if you plan on going to college. but im just helping you. you need to make the desicions. so stick to what you think is rightt. and for your mom, dont listen to her. just say, "you wish you could play soccer like i do." lol.
Well, good luck=D
-stef*

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