I am someone who likes to try and be as honest as i possibly can with everyone, and i do not like to sugar-coat things. i would like anyone who needs advice to know that i don't claim to know everything, and nor will i try to pretend to. my advice is based on my own experience and what i've learned so far in life.
***also, if you are a single female who is near my age and who lives in PG/AAC county (maryland) let me know, and i can give you info necessary to contact me by. i'm about 6' tall, athletic and kind. i play football and wrestle as well as swim and bowl. i have light brown (almost blond) hair and baby blue eyes. and best of all, i'm single. contact me if you are in PG/AAC county and are interested in a date***
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Alright I see you anwser alot of questions on advicenators.com, so I'll ask you a question.
I used to have a crush on this guy, Charlie. I wanted to make out wth him, and date him for a long time but then he went to college and I never saw him anymore. Well a month or so ago, I saw him at a party and things happened and we made out. Things progressed and we decided to be friends with benefits. It was to be on the down-Low.
He told me that he doesn't want a relationship with girls because all girls are sweet at first then they turn out to be phsyco.
He's totally hot and we've had sex a few times. I'm not going to lie, the sex is great. But now lately we just hang out or talk on the phone. He doesn't try anything with me, although he does encourage me to call him every night, and tells me to be careful. There is obvious flirting and chemistry going on between us.
I wouldn't really call us "friends" - Although that could be debatable. He sends mixed signels.
If we are just friends with benefits why does he calls so much? I thought all FWB's do is call for a booty call. I'm not sure what to do in this situation. I'm confused and not sure what to do. How should I handle this situation and what the heck is going on???? (link)
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I am sorry for taking so long to answer your question. I have been working so much recently I havent even been on this webpage in a month. Any way, to answer your question, the guy usually determines the problem. Does he go out of his way to be nice and non-confrontational? Wants numerous calls, but avoids physical contact? As a guy, it sounds to me like one of two things are going on here. One, he likes you a lot, but is worried about strapping himself down to just one female. If he is a very flirtatious person then this is more than likely the problem. He feels that the more frequently you two hook-up, the less it will feel like random, FWB-style sex than being with a girlfriend. the very idea of a relationship scares him.
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Thanks.....my msn is imsupergirl7@hotmail.com if you'd like to talk more.
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