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me && my mom had a major fight && she hit me... and i have a fat lip.. i need help what should i do? it was a few days ago && my lip is still swollen.. should i forgive her? she keeps sayin im sorry, please forgive.. i didnt mean it.. and im like okay... what should i do?? i need help? (link)
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If nothing like this has happened before and she's learnt her lesson enough to never do it again then yeah I guess forgive her as best you can. However this is a really crappy thing to happen and however much she apologises she's crossed a line that'll change your relationship- your mum's supposed to be the person who protects you. I wouldn't be surprised if it takes you quite a long time to rebuild trust in her and that's something she will have to accept.
A fat lip sounds like she hit you pretty hard and actually hit you rather than a slap or something and that must be pretty scary. If you are scared or if ANYTHING like this happens again, talk to someone you trust about it like your guidance councilor.
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you helped a lot... you give good advice..
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