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In all honestly..can some precum get you pregnant? My bf have sex and we like to not use a condem for like 30 seconds at first. then he puts one on..and we go for 5-7 minutes usually (sometimes less sometimes a minute or so more) and he finishes. the likliness of me getting pregnant isnt all that high right?
second question...my bf only lasts for 3-7 minutes. is this normal? i have heard of guys going for 15 mins,30 mins, etc. is there any way to increase how long he lasts?
third question..i was dumb and made a horrible mistake thinking i would be ok if we had sex on the 4th and 5th day of my period (which was light at the time because 5th day is my last day) unprotected. my health teacher told me it was unlikely but still possible. i took a pregnancy test today..and im due for my period right around now or within the next 3 days about. .it came out negative. should i still be concerned?
PLEASE HELP! if you only know the answer to 1 of my questions..please answer! 5's for anyone who is nice! :) thank you so much
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I'll be honest, my boyfriend and I rarely used condoms. At all. Is this safe? No. Am I advocating unprotected sex? No. But I'm telling you, I've gone 7 months, using no condoms, him just pulling out before he came, and haven't gotten pregnant. The deal is though, he tends not to show much precum at all, in fact, I've never even see him precum, when giving him a handjob or blowjob. But I'm not saying he doesn't. I'm just trying to ease your mind about this. People are just telling you that you can get pregnant because, well, you can. It IS possible, but it is not as probable as you might think. But still, to be safe, I would go on birth control pills. It will give you peace of mind. It's what I did. =)
I have the same complaint. My boyfriend doesn't normally last very long the first time but the solution to that is to go again. But if you are going without a condom for the first 30 seconds and it is the second time going, DO NOT GO WITHOUT A CONDOM AT ALL. Because there could still be sperm leaking from his penis and that can get you pregnant easier than precum. So if you're going a second time, use a condom all the way. Okay?
I wouldn't worry about it. But I also wouldn't do it again. Just try and stop stressing and wait for your period to come. If you stress it'll be later and then you'll just freak out more. If you don't get it in the next week, take another pregnancy test.
Best of luck, if you have any questions or just wanna talk feel free to IM me at blondstbrunete34 I love helping people out!!
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