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Q: Ever since we met, my boyfriend always had this thing about grabbing my upper arm to pull me closer to him when he wants to talk to me or something.
Sometimes it's like he isn't aware of his own strength or something because it'll hurt. And I always tell him not to do it because of that. He apologizes and tells me that he doesn't realize he does it that hard and says he'll try to stop.
Well, of course, he doesn't stop. He just did it last night and that time it left marks on my arms. I didn't even notice until my mom said something about it this morning and I had to sit that and explain to her why the guy I'm seeing left marks on my arm! NOT EASY.
I haven't showed him the marks yet but what should I say to him when I do? I mean, I know what to say but how do I make it clear to him that he NEEDS to STOP?
And by the way, he is in NO WAY abusive, if he came off that way. I'm 18/f -- He's 21/m
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well like you said, he's not meaning to hurt you on purpose. i think that you should show him what he did. then you should try a tactict (i think thats the word.) everytime he grabs your arm, you pinch his cheek, or something like that. then reward him when he resists temptation! haha hope it helped.
&hearts
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heh, I really like that idea. I've only used that for things like swearing. I would have never thought of it for this. Thanks.
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Hey guys
&hearts &hearts &hearts
well what do i put in here...
I'm really getting tired of people making columns because all of their freinds have them and they just want to put a cute picture of themselves online of them kissing themselves in the mirror, or whatever. I'm really serious about this and, believe it or not, I try to give advice. That is, unless i get a dumb question. I've had around 3 or 4 accounts on here before, so I'd say im pretty experienced. :)
Yes, I'm only 14, but I have a more mature mind than people give me credit for. So ask me a question, I DARE YOU.
&hearts &hearts &hearts
::About Me::
I'm very into music, art, books, photography and drama.
My iPod is my world.
I Love...
Musicals
The Arts
Fashion
My Friends
Photography
Living in the moment
Current Quote Living By:
Never settle for less.
I'm always here
So leave me a question.
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Gender: Female Location: ATL Occupation: Student -off for SUMMA TIME- Age: 14 Member Since: June 10, 2006 Answers: 59 Last Update: June 22, 2006 Visitors: 5356
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