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hey... well my boyfriend jordan and i have been going out for a month now. but my problem is that he invited me to go to the community pool with his family tomorrow. but, i don`t want to go. i am veerrryyy self-concious when my stomach is showing, because i`m quite chubby for my age. i don`t want to lie to him, but i also don`t want to be in a bathing suit around other people. so, i`m scared to go because i`m afraid he`ll be embarassed to be seen with me. what should i do??

Just tell him you feel self-concious and that your afraid he'll be embarassed of you. I've done that w/ some of my boyfriends when I felt self-concious and they really reasure you that they love you the way you are and that you may think your stomach is big but they don't! Or, I'd consider talking to someone, a guy friend, or just a friend about it. It'll make you feel better! Also, your boyfriend I'm sure isn't going out with you for your looks and if he is DUMP HIM!! I hope it goes well!!!

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